How to Support Loved Ones with Hearing Loss

By, Laura Schroeder, Au.D.

Supporting a loved one with a hearing loss can be challenging, but with patience, understanding, and a few practical adjustments, you can make a significant difference in their experience as well as your own. Hearing loss often goes unnoticed until it becomes a barrier to communication, and this can lead to frustration, isolation, and even depression. It’s important to approach the situation with empathy and a willingness to adapt.

Start by being patient. When speaking to someone with hearing loss, make sure to face them and ensure good lighting so they can read your lips if needed. Ideally, get their attention and move to within a few feet of them before starting the conversation. Speak clearly and at a moderate pace, but avoid shouting, as it can distort your voice. Be mindful of background noise, which can make it even harder for them to understand your words. If your loved one has hearing aids that you help manage, ensure they are working properly and inserted correctly.

It’s also helpful to encourage them to seek professional advice. An audiologist can provide a hearing assessment and recommend the right devices. Some people may need additional support, like a remote microphone or captioned phone which can enhance their ability to engage with family and friends.

Emotional support is equally important. Acknowledge that hearing loss can be frustrating and offer reassurance that it’s okay to ask for help. Foster open communication about their needs and respect their preferences, whether it’s speaking more slowly or using closed captioning on the TV.

By being proactive and understanding, you can create an environment where your loved one feels heard and valued, improving both their quality of life and your relationship.